Its a private occasion!

I have made my blog private, I hope this doesnt add a lot of extra hassles to everyone but It nauseates me to know my ex and his wife were reading about my life, and Breanna's life here on the blog.

It never occurred to me that they would have the guts and the ability to find my blog and to steal stuff from it, but I guess you never underestimate the power of obnoxiousness.

So, I can now tell you a little about my ex, he was a controlling, obnoxious, big mouth, adultering asshole. Breanna has pretty much cut him out of her life, and I have been fairly successful in erasing him from my life. My regret is that I wasted nearly 21 yrs on a life of misery and anguish married to him. I still get anxious when holidays grow near because holidays were always the time that he picked to be extra mean and abusive. My birthday was his favorite time to be horrible. We always ended up in a huge fight and it was always my fault, funny how that is, especially when I am not a confrontational person.

I remember well how I would think "well there goes my birthday". As he storms out slamming doors, screeching tires and hitting walls, throwing pictures, you name it, he did it. Except hit me. He was afraid of my dad, thats what kept him from hitting me.

On a lighter note, lets move on to something less depressing. Breanna is loving life! She has a great job, great friends, and is loving college. She is taking her first year of Japanese and wants to continue with it until graduation. She has a chance to go to Japan and visit her "friend" who is stationed there in the Air Force, wish we could send her, but it is darned expensive!!! She wanted to go for Christmas, I would like to see her take some of her student loan money and go in the spring, I think she would be able to afford it then. Time will tell, I guess, its up to her.

Right now she and several of her college friends are driving home from Denver where they attended an "anime con", just what college kids should be doing!

Dana and I are great, we are looking forward to a trip to Vegas in 3 weeks, I can hardly wait.
So, I will now attempt to get back into the blogging world. I am not promising to blog daily, I think that really burned me out, but I am back with bells on!!

Thanks for reading.