Friday, October 31, 2008
Happy Halloween!
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Wednesday, October 29, 2008
More Random Thoughts..
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Tuesday, October 28, 2008
A Feel Good Tuesday


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Monday, October 27, 2008
Do You Have a Secret??
I was watching a TV show on CNN Healine News last night and they were spotlighting a website online called PostSecret . Basically, this is a website where people post their secrets that they have that have never been told to anyone. This is done by filling out a postcard and sending to the webminister and if he truly thinks that the confession is a real one, then he will post the card and secret on the website.
This got me thinking about secrets. I know everyone has a secret. At least one, something that they have never told or been too embarrassed to tell. Maybe something that really needs to come out?
Here is mine, actually I am keeping one for someone else. About 6 or 7 years ago, I had a coworker whose husband was a drug user and incredibly abusive. They had 2 small children and she confided in me that she was fearful of him and afraid that he would injure the children. She finally came to the end of her rope. So she decided to take some of his drugs (most of them were prescription drugs obtained on the streets) and lace his drink with them. And she did. And that night a friend of her husbands came over to the house to "party" and drank the drink meant for the husband!!!!
This friend then left and drove 20 miles and ran off of the road, and wrecked his car! His tox screen came up abnormal, but he used these same drugs anyway, so no one else knew. Except me.
I didnt know about the accident until much later because he was in a different county so there was nothing I could do about it. And the girl and her abusive husband divorced later on, when he was in prison for several parole violations in another state.
I dont need to know your secrets, just curious to see if you all have one that you have never told??
Posted by Tonjia at 5:40 PM 6 comments
Sunday, October 26, 2008
Now I said my ABC's next time wont you sing with me?
I was reading my favorite blogs last night (too many to mention on my sidebar) and I ran across this on Ambers blog Proud Army Wife and Momma of Two Little Ghouls . Feel free to join in and play along if you want! Just answer the questions, applied to each letter of the alphabet:
A is for age: 51, I cant believe I am out of the 40's!
B is for burger of choice: Whopper with Cheese, no lettuce, from BK
C is for the car I drive: 2008 Ford Escape Limited- red
D is for your dog's name: Max and Frankie
E is for essential item you use every day: Computer and Cell phone
F is for favorite TV show at the moment: Bones, Army Wives, Greys Anatomy, CSI, The Biggest loser
G is for favorite game: Wii sports
H is for home state: Born in Montana, but raised in Colorado
I is for instruments you play: Drums
J is for favorite juice: Grape
K is for whose bum you'd like to kick: My boss
L is for last restaurant at which you ate: Texas Roadhouse
M is for your favorite Muppet: Kermit
N is for number of piercings: One in each ear
O is for overnight hospital stays: 2, once when I had my tonsils out at age 13 and once when I had Breanna.
P is for people you were with today: Dana and Breanna
Q is for what you do with your quiet time: blog, read, watch movies
R is for biggest regret: marrying my ex
S is for status: Married
T is for time you woke up today: 10:00am
U is for what you consider unique about yourself: I have 6 fingers on one hand. no not really, LOL... maybe my sense of humor?
V is for vegetable you love: carrot cake ;-)
W is for worst habit: Eating when I am not hungry
X is for x-rays you've had: oh geez, have you got a day or two? lets see, right hand, right elbow, right ankle, right knee, left ankle, left hand, back, head, chest, I have had multiple xrays of both ankles and both hands from different injuries. Then there are dental xrays....
Y is for yummy food you ate today: crockpot garlic chicken
Z is for zodiac: Virgo, I am a true Virgo.
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Saturday, October 25, 2008
Sometimes this is me.....

Cartoon by Dave Walker. Find more cartoons you can freely re-use on your blog at We Blog Cartoons.
and sometimes I have a lot to say, tonight is not one of those times. I am physically exhausted from 3 hard nights at work, it feels kind of like a hangover and sleep deprivation all at the same time. With the chance of changing shifts I ask myself why I am doing this to myself? LOL
I will blog more tomorrow, right now I am collapsed in my chair with an ice cold diet pepsi, and a wiener on my lap......
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Friday, October 24, 2008
Calgon take me away!
We are overrun with drama at work. I HATE workplace drama!! "She said, she did, he wont......" etc etc.
And I have the pleasure of working for a micromanager. When one is dealing with type A personality nurses, micromanagement just doesnt work. This just compounds the frustration and anger of my coworkers, and me.
So the friction in the dept is high, nit picking with each other is high, I just want to scream!!!!
I may have some changes coming up in the future, my doctor has recommended that I get off of night shift if I can, (and I would love to) so I am attempting to maneuver my way onto day shift. The plus side would be that I can get my diabetes under control, and it will definately help with my Weight Watchers, and overall health. The down side.... a $5.50/hr cut in pay. hmmm what to do, what to do? Sometimes feeling good is better than having extra cash, right?
Someone please tell me I am right!
I will keep you all updated on what happens, maybe this will be a good thing....
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Wednesday, October 22, 2008
The Traveling Truth
I have been tagged by Kim at Lifeafter , (thank you Kim) and since I love learning about people and I think these things are a hoot. Here are my answers to her questions. aka "The Traveling Truth"
Where is your cell phone? on the table next to my chair
Where is your significant other? in his chair next to me playing on his laptop
Your hair color? Blonde
Your mother? In Oklahoma with my dad
Your father? He lives in Oklahoma with my mom :-)
Your favorite thing? my doggies, and my family
Your dream last night? I cant remember it all but it involves climbing mountains and staying in a cabin. (with people I dont know)
Your dream/goal? To quit nursing and open a doggie day care/boarding facility
The room you’re in? living room
Your hobby? Blogging, reading
Your fear? drowning
Where do you want to be in 6 years? living here where we are now, 6 yrs closer to retirement.
Where were you last night? Weight Watchers meeting
What you’re not? a Republican/conservative
One of your wish-list items? Stronger sentences for Parole violators.... and World Peace, Bob. ;-) Seriously? A building to put my day care in
Where you grew up? Colorado
Last thing you did? ironed scrub tops for work tonight
What are you wearing? jeans and t-shirt
Your TV? watching "Airline"
Your pet? Frankie (my Doxie) and Max (our basset)
Your computer? Gateway laptop
Your mood? usually good, sometimes cranky
Missing someone? sometimes
Your car? 2008 Ford Escape Limited- Red
Something you’re not wearing? socks
Favorite store? Borders or any kitchen gadget store
Your summer? Over
Love someone? Yes, Dana...
Your favorite color? today, Red but it changes
When is the last time you laughed? An hour ago
Last time you cried? I dont remember, probably when Bre was in the USAF
Passing it on to: I have decided not to pass this one on. Or maybe just pass it on to everyone! Have at it guys! I love reading these meme's and learning about everyone else..
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Tuesday, October 21, 2008
Welcome home 45th Infantry Brigade of the OK National Guard!
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Monday, October 20, 2008
What IF Firefighters Ran the Country?
Maybe we wouldnt have to worry about all of the mud-slinging and bickering? Its a thought....
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Sunday, October 19, 2008
Whats your mountain?

Cartoon by Dave Walker. Find more cartoons you can freely re-use on your blog at We Blog Cartoons.
Guess what happened? I gained 30lbs back. So here I go again, back to good old Weight Watchers, back to the meetings, counting the points and trying to stay in the mindset that I am what I eat. So far, 4lbs down. This is my 3rd week.
Donned in my hiking boots, and armed with climbing rope, and climbing essentials, here I go again.. Wish me luck.
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Saturday, October 18, 2008
Is it the Nature of the Beast?
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Friday, October 17, 2008
We all need a break now and then.
And a smile. Thank you Anheuser Busch for giving us the best commercials on TV. This one came to me in an email from my sister yesterday, but when I researched it, I found out it was a commercial for the Superbowl in 2006. Enjoy, and smile...and dont forget to turn the volume off on my playlist . And one more thing, welcome readers of WwoW!! I hope you enjoy your trip to my blogging world.
Posted by Tonjia at 12:38 AM 6 comments
Thursday, October 16, 2008
Someone has to say it!!!
OK call me unamerican if you want, but I am really fed up here. I am sitting here on Wednesday evening watching the last (thank goodness) presidential candidate debate and they are talking economy. Senator McCain is proposing (and these are very loose translations) that the government "take over" the mortgages for all of these people who obtained mortgages on homes with variable rates, and who are now in danger of losing their homes to foreclosure. Senator Obama proposes a 90 day moratorium (again, loosely translated) to allow these people to catch up on their late payments or find another means of financing mortgages that are too expensive for them to afford.
Now, I am sorry that these individuals were given these loans, (although no one made them take the loans) and its sad that they are losing their homes.......
BUT!!! What are these 2 candidates going to do for ME? What about those of us who purchased homes that we can afford, with payments that are in our budget and those of us who make our house payments on time every month??? WHAT are they going to do for US??
I propose that each taxpaying individual be given either $5,000 or $10,000 in cash to do what we want to with. If your house payments are behind, use this money to catch up. If you need to get out from under a bad mortgage, use this money as a down payment to refinance and change it. If you are behind in credit cards, use it to pay them down or pay them off. It doesnt take someone with 8 yrs of college or a Juris Doctorate to realize that this plan would be much better for ALL American citizens, not just a choice few.
Ok guys, step back and look at the whole picture. Lets make this work for everyone..... Can someone please hold this soapbox, while I step off? LOL
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Wednesday, October 15, 2008
Just when I had a bloggers block....
It is called a Perfect Blend of Friendship Award and has some questions attached to it. So, here we go!!
1. Do you have the same friends since childhood? Sadly, no. I had one great friend as a child that I really spent a lot of time with. I lost touch with her when she moved to the Aspen area when we were in high school. (most of my school friends have moved away) The weird thing is, she and I both ended up RN's and she works at the other hospital in town. Now that I have moved back to the area maybe we can meet up some day.
2. What do you value most about your friends? Honesty. I was burned really bad last year by a person whom I thought was my friend. We had known each other for 8 years worked together, had lots of laughs and good times and shared some personal stuff with each other. She ended up stealing my code to our medication dispensing machine at work and stealing narcotics, using my code. I could have lost my license, and my job. I guess her drug habit was more important than our friendship.
3. Are your friends your sounding boards? yes absolutely. I have a good friend who lives in Chicago that I vent to, (via the internet) and a good friend here at home that is a coworker, we vent to each other about work all of the time. LOL And of course Dana and my sister are my closest friends, and I use them to spout off too on a regular basis!
4. What is your favorite activity to share with your friends? we chat. Usually online but I do talk to my sister most every day, so I guess my favorite activity would be talking.
And now according to the rules of this award, I have to list 5 things under the following headers, and pass this award on to 5 more people. Here we go!
10 years ago:
I was getting a divorce
I was working in a small ER, and loved every minute of it
I weighed 85 lbs more than I do now
I was training to be a SANE
I had just met Dana
5 things on todays "To do" list:
take a shower and get dressed
eat breakfast
buy an Itunes card
go to the bank
clean the laundry room
5 snacks that I enjoy:
ice cream!
cheetohs
crackers and cheese
Reeses peanut butter cups
snickers miniatures
5 things I would do if I were a millionaire:
quit work
travel. I have always wanted to go to Hawaii
build a doggie day care
buy a horse
build a new home with stables and room for rescue bassets and doxies
5 places I have lived:
Palisade, CO
Nowata, OK
Ontario, CA
Edna, KS
Chambersburg, PA
5 jobs that I have had:
Cook at Long John Silvers
Clerk at a lumber yard/home center
Insurance biller and coder for doctors office
Medical Office Manager
Registered Nurse
Tag 5 people to pass the award on to:
Kim at Lifeafter
Laura at Silence is Broken
Vegas Princess at Life, Vegas Style
Airman Mom at Airman Mom
Linda at The Frog Ho Diaries
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Monday, October 13, 2008
Brrrrr....
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Sunday, October 12, 2008
Happy Birthday Dana!



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Saturday, October 11, 2008
Christmas in October?
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Thursday, October 9, 2008
Another day another dollar...
another drunk, another transient. LOL I am in the middle of my workweek, the nights are getting colder here which means the transients are all on the lookout for a warm place to sleep.
This means the ER fills up quickly with those who have varied vague complaints that are impossible to nail down immediately, and that gives them several hourse of interrupted sleep before we discharge them back into the night. Sometimes they even talk us out of food....
Ahhh the home of the brave and the land of the FREE.
Bitter? naw.. cynical? maybe a bit. Irritated, absolutely!! Thanks for letting me vent. :-)
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Wednesday, October 8, 2008
New toys for Christmas!


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Tuesday, October 7, 2008
4 more weeks....
We are nearing the end. Only 4 more weeks of mud slinging, mimicking, overbearing commercials for the presidential campaign.
I wish they would stop. I have heard more slam commercials than I want to hear. The way I see it, if americans who are registered to vote do not have their candidate chosen by now, these ridiculous commercials will not really have an effect on who they choose.
This is getting old really fast.
Do you all feel the same way? I think most Americans are almost to the end of their rope...
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Monday, October 6, 2008
Bob the talking dachshund
Meet Bob, the talking dachshund. He talks just like Frankie. All this time, I wasnt sure if Frankie was gifted as a talker or if it is just another doxie trait. I think Bob has answered my questions. Of course, Frankie does not know french, just english...
Many times during the day, Frankie will sit on my foot stool or on the futon and look at me with that inquisitive look on his face and he will bark. And look at me, and bark again, like he is trying to tell me something special. He usually wants me to feed him, but once or twice he has told me that his brother Max has either escaped the yard or has crawled under the house next door. Frankie is just like Lassie!
For those of you who have doxies, do your dogs do the same thing?
Now without further adieu.... BOB
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Sunday, October 5, 2008
A Letter From God
Boy, did I need this today. This came to me from an old friend whom I used to work with. How did she know????
To: YOU
Date: TODAY
From: GOD
Subject YOURSELF
Reference: LIFE
This is God. Today I will be handling All of your problems for you. I do Not need your help. So, have a nice day. I love you.
P.S. And, remember... If life happens to deliver a situation to you that you cannot handle, do Not attempt to resolve it yourself! Kindly put it in the SFGTD (something for God to do) box. I will get to it in MY TIME. All situations will be resolved, but in My time, not yours.
Once the matter is placed into the box, do not hold onto it by worrying about it. Instead, focus on all the wonderful things that are present in your life now.
If you find yourself stuck in traffic, don't despair. There are people in this world for whom driving is an unheard of privilege.
Should you have a bad day at work; think of the man who has been out of work for years.
Should you despair over a relationship gone bad; think of the person who has never known what it's like to love and be loved in return.
Should you grieve the passing of another weekend; think of the woman in dire straits, working twelve hours a day, seven days a week to feed her children.
Should your car break down, leaving you miles away from assistance; think of the paraplegic who would love the opportunity to take that walk.
Should you notice a new gray hair in the mirror; think of the cancer patient in chemo who wishes she had hair to examine.
Should you find yourself at a loss and pondering what is life all about, asking what is my purpose? Be thankful. There are those who didn't live long enough to get the opportunity.
Should you find yourself the victim of other people's bitterness, ignorance, smallness or insecurities; remember, things could be worse.. You could be one of them!
Should you decide to send this to a friend; Thank you. You may have touched their life in ways you will never know! Now, you have a nice day...God
I would like to pass this letter on to each and every one of you.
Posted by Tonjia at 7:43 PM 9 comments
Saturday, October 4, 2008
Shall we bury our money in the back yard?
I am thinking this financial crisis that we have brewing in the US is getting to be a little serious. We found out this week that many student loans are being frozen and students who got their paperwork done later than others are not getting their loans!!
Thank goodness we got Breanna's loan application and FAFSA stuff done on time, this could have had a direct impact on whether she would have been able to continue on in school.
So, what are we supposed to do? Banks are not loaning money on cars, mortgage companies are foreclosing on people who cannot make their mortgage payment, credit card companies are bordering on hysterical when it comes to collecting money owed to them, this is getting ugly, very ugly.
Dana and I are blessed that we are both in healthcare right now, even though I complain about it more than I should, at least we have job security. People continue to get sick and they tell us that Medicare is solvent, (this is yet to be seen) so the hospitals are being paid, so far....
One of my coworkers has now drawn out 2 months worth of money, and put in her wall safe. Her friend with a Masters degree in finance has advised her to do this. OMG are we going to resort to burying money in old coffee cans in our back yards???
I am afraid it is going to get worse before it gets better, EEK!
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Friday, October 3, 2008
Something I Just Realized..
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Thursday, October 2, 2008
Random Thoughts
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Wednesday, October 1, 2008
What I have learned....
I saw this on a poster and again on a blog by Ahmad Anvari, I really like it.
I've learned.... That the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person.
I've learned.... That when you're in love, it shows.
I've learned.. That just one person saying to me, "You've made my day!" makes my day.
I've learned.... That having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the most peaceful feelings in the world.
I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right.
I've learned.... That you should never say no to a gift from a child.
I've learned.... That I can always pray for someone when I don't have the strength to help him in some other way.
I've learned.... That no matter how serious your life requires you to be, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with.
I've learned.... That sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.
I've learned.... That simple walks with my father around the block on summer nights when I was a child did wonders for me as an adult.
I've learned.... That life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.
I've learned.... That we should be glad God doesn't give us everything we ask for.
I've learned.... That money doesn't buy class.
I've learned.... That it's those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.
I've learned... That under everyone's hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.
I've learned.... That the Lord didn't do it all in one day. What makes me think I can?
I've learned.... That to ignore the facts does not change the facts.
I've learned.... That when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.
I've learned.... That love, not time, heals all wounds.
I've learned.... That the easiest way for me to grow as a person is to surround myself with people smarter than I am.
I've learned.... That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile. I've learned.... That there's nothing sweeter than sleeping with your babies and feeling their breath on your cheeks.
I've learned.... That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.
I've learned.... That life is tough, but I'm tougher.
I've learned.... That opportunities are never lost; someone will take the ones you miss.
I've learned.... That when you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere.
I've learned.... That I wish I could have told my Mom that I love her one more time before she passed away.
I've learned.... That one should keep his words both soft and tender, because tomorrow he may have to eat them.
I've learned.... That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.
I've learned.... That I can't choose how I feel, but I can choose what I do about it.
I've learned.... That when your newly born grandchild holds your little finger in his little fist, that you're hooked for life.
I've learned.... That everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you're climbing it.
I've learned ... That it is best to give advice in only two circumstances; when it is requested and when it is a life-threatening situation.
I've learned.... That the less time I have to work with, the more things I get done.
awesome things to think about, huh?
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